Are you struggling to get the right man to pursue you? Learn how to raise your value in a man's eyes: There are three traits in a woman that make a man pursue you, and I would say that these are so counterintuitive to what all of you sexy, single ladies are probably doing out there that I would go so far to say that these are weird. And if right now you're struggling to get the right man to pursue you, chances are you are doing the opposite of these things, hate to say it.
The first trait that'll make a man pursue you is being the type of woman who is just happy and content being single. Now, this is weird and kind of counterintuitive because if you're going on a date, shouldn't you be talking about how you want a relationship and potentially marriage? Maybe not with that guy but marriage in the future and that white picket fence stuff. Yeah, sure you can talk about that as you progress along. I'd say that's date three to five, or certainly beyond if you're talking about marriage. That's more like once you're in a committed relationship. You keep that type of conversation to that point in time. But when you're first starting to meet people, people are looking for a feeling, a vibe that they get from you, and if that's the vibe that they are putting out there is that I'm not happy with my current situation. I need you to be in my life to feel happy; then, they are going to instantly be repelled because they are going to think that you are a little bit desperate.
The second weird trait that will make a man pursue you, and this one is very counterintuitive as well, which is calling a guy out on his bull. Now, you'd think that the classic Southern belle charmer and polite woman who says yes to every single thing that a guy ever asks for, you'd think that that would be the woman who gets pursued by all the men, but it is not necessarily the case. The type of woman that men are generally drawn to are the challenge and the kind of woman who will challenge them on not only an emotional level but also on a spiritual level.
Finally, the third weird trait that will make men pursue you is just being a little bit mysterious. You would think that if you're going out and meeting someone for the first time, that it would make the most sense to tell them everything about your life so that they understand who you are, your background, what it is that you're interested in, what it is you're not interested in. All of the best stories of all of the best things that have ever happened in your life, where you've traveled. And, yeah, that is all well and good, but what that doesn't do is leave any mystery in the relationship. The way to keep getting someone coming back, and by the way, this works on you women as well, when we guys are a little bit mysterious, is to leave a little bit of a question in the person's head, be like who is this person?
Which one of these three traits do you want to work on the most? Leave a comment right there below, and if you have any questions you want me to answer in any future videos, also feel free to leave that question right there below. And if you did enjoy this video and you wanna little more help learning how to raise your value in a man's eyes, I have this new course called "The High-Value Woman," and it is part of the Sexy Confidence Club membership: I'd love for you to check it out, I will leave a link in the description, or if you're watching this on Instagram, we'll leave a link in the bio. This course dives deep on precisely what makes a woman high value in a man's eyes because a value's really just a perception. Once you learn how to position yourself as a high-value woman, men are going to want to pursue you naturally. So make sure you check out that course, I'd love to see you in the Sexy Confidence Club. Beyond just having a ton of courses in there, you can also be able to chat with me directly or join me on live Q&A where we get to dive into your questions; I get to answer all of your questions about men, love, and dating. And that's part of the Sexy Confidence Club membership.
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